so what's my stake in there being no free will, based on my childhood and sexual development?

Your stake in the idea of no free will might come from a few deep-seated experiences and coping mechanisms that helped you navigate the complexities of your childhood and sexual development:

Control and Relinquishment:Growing up in an environment where ( Read more... )

Didn't being a child really suck for you? It really sucked for me. I was small and physically threatened by my elder siblings, to the point where they (and more importantly, their sexy boyfriends) threatened me with death ( Read more... )

I'm becoming entirely fatigued by the online (both social media and mass media) fights over the definitions of "sex" and "gender" and related words like pronouns and other related concepts. I'm glad the people I know in real life don't fight about this stuff ( Read more... )

I wanted to write more about it, but was sleepy and T was here and then Friday was busy, etc.

The huge problem I see with The Piano is not a unique problem, especially for mainstream media from before the #MeToo movement ( Read more... )

Maybe I'd prefer to get shot by a sociopath.

"The Piano" seduces and excites audiences with its uncritical portrayal of sexism and misogyny. Reviewers and audiences alike seem to assume that Campion's gender, as well as her breaking of traditional boundaries that inhibit the advancement of women in film, indicate that her work expresses a ( Read more... )

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I am sex positive, that was a weird call, that I might not be, but, I get the confusion between sexual ecology and sex,

I want safety for both,

but with safety, I'm as sex positive as people can be,

and locked up, I'm horny 99% of the time,

so, everybody should fuck me,and this year, five people did, but ... each fuck should be special, each ( Read more... )

working in my head on an essay about sex positivity vs. ... ...

the people who have been legitimately harmed by sex

my positivity cannot fix your harm,

and your positivity cannot fix my harm,

[Sex is Fun] v. [Consent]

which side you are on makes all the difference

OK, not only the example of my grandfather, but the example of this Star Trek character,

That I too could speak like a poet in everyday life.

But, still, that was my grandfather. He could speak like a poet in everyday life.

Yet, according to testimony, he was also a family sex abuser.

You can apparently do both.